Basically it means that you create a lot of drama and work and tension for the wrong reasons.
The reasons can include these:
- to get attention.
- because you feel that he needs to "prove" that he loves you
- due to sheer boredom
- because you think that real love means you do a lot of shouting
Don't be a "high maintenance" wife or girlfriend. Love is supposed to be enjoyable and yes, FUN. When the fun goes out of life, then life drastically changes for all of us. It even affects your health.Life has enough stresses without adding to them on purpose.
Now if you recognize yourself here, the LAST thing you need to do is to start beating yourself up over it. We've all probably done this with others!! - you need a break today and to have FUN.