Thursday, July 5, 2007

Are you a 'high maintenance' wife or girlfriend - emotionally??

or friend?


Basically it means that you create a lot of drama and work and tension for the wrong reasons.


The reasons can include these:


- to get attention.

- because you feel that he needs to "prove" that he loves you

- due to sheer boredom

- because you think that real love means you do a lot of shouting


Don't be a "high maintenance" wife or girlfriend. Love is supposed to be enjoyable and yes, FUN. When the fun goes out of life, then life drastically changes for all of us. It even affects your health.Life has enough stresses without adding to them on purpose.


Now if you recognize yourself here, the LAST thing you need to do is to start beating yourself up over it. We've all probably done this with others!! - you need a break today and to have FUN.

20 comments:

pamelastitch said...

LOL!! My take is that many men are high maintainance boyfriends. :D

It is not us innocent girls..jare!!

Anonymous said...

i am so not high maintaance..my husband go enjoy me o!lawl

princess said...

I dont think am high maintenance but i love some attention once in a while sha o!(who doesnt anyway).
Lovin ur blog, drop by mine,ok.

La Reine said...

I don't think I'm high maintainance....but I'm not low maintainance either.

Your blog on Monday was hilarious, by the way.

Ugo Daniels said...

True words sista. I only hope those concerned are reading this :)

Sisbee said...

Bas ur blog is rockin'

drNO said...

hahaha...no, i don't think I'm high-maintainance :P

The shopaholic. said...

I am definitely not high maintenance...I think. :D

ebony said...

Thanks for visiting. I really enjoyed reading your blog too.

I must confess, am a former high maintenance wife reforming to become middle maintenance. Stay blessed!

Copido said...

@ Ebony:
lol

I am definitely high maintenance and my hubby tolerates me. I think most women are high maintenance so u lot should drop the pretense...

A Kel called Wonder ...... said...

I can actually be high maintenance espcially @ that time of the month. Dunno y, i just want so much attention.

pamelastitch said...

LOL!! akel - i agree with you on that one!! oops!! TMI!! :D

linzeburd said...

OMG I'm soooooo high maintenance, I can't get over it idk what it is I'm just i've just been hurt too many times it's soooo hard to trust. Esp. since my bf moved 4 hours away to another state because he got a teaching job...so it's hard to deal with it if any one has any advice on how I can try to calm down some i'm open for options cause i'm going through a really really rough time I cry myself to sleep a lot over it...

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